The Night We Almost Went to the Rodeo

So...we almost went to the rodeo tonight. But here's what happened instead.

The day started out normal for me, but trouble was already brewing with Clarke's parents, who were going to come with us (along with his sister and her husband).

Clarke's dad left their house at 4:30 this morning to go to Denton for a photography job. His mom discovered while she was getting ready for work that all of the water had stopped working at their house. Then, on her way to work, she got a flat tire.

I took the kids to my Bible study today and had a normal morning and afternoon, except for the fact that Arden didn't take a nap. I knew she was going to be so tired and cranky, but there was nothing I could do.

We were supposed to all meet at a restaurant at 5:30, and as I was getting the kids ready to leave, I decided it would be a good idea to have Huston wear his cowboy hat for a picture.

He hates pictures and hats. I don't know why I though I could reason with him. There was much screaming and crying that could have been avoided if I hadn't insisted on a picture.

(This was his best attempt at a smile)

I was all worked up by the time I left the house with the kids at 5 (mostly mad at myself for the picture taking fiasco). Then I ran into bad rush hour traffic, which got much, much worse when I got to this dumb construction zone on a bridge that is the bane of my existence. After waiting for forever, I had to turn around and go another way, and what should have been a 20 minute trip ended up taking an hour. While we're in traffic, Arden is crying in the back, "I'm tired! I'm not tired!" She finally fell asleep for the last ten minutes. I called Clarke to say I was running late, and he was also running late, as was his mom (from the same traffic). To top it off, his dad was still in Denton on his job, and he had our tickets to the rodeo with him.

We finally all got to the restaurant at 6 (minus his dad), managed to find a table and eat, and then we left to go to the stock show and see the animals while we waited for his dad who thought he'd be able to make it in time for the rodeo at 7:30. On our way over to the stock show, Melinda got a call on her cell phone that her dear friend's granddaughter has RSV.

We got to the entrance, and I handed the guy the voucher I printed off online, which, in conjunction with our museum membership card, was supposed to get us into the stock show for free. The guy starts giving me a hard time because the back of my membership card shows an expiration date of 12/31/11, even though my parents got us a renewal for Christmas, and I renewed it at the museum and they told me I would maybe get a new card in the mail, but I could just keep using my old card because they put it in the computer. He doesn't seem to believe me, and I'm about to lose my temper because I cannot believe all the things that have gone wrong.

That's when Arden starts throwing up.

And I catch it in my hand.

And then she throws up some more in the grass.

And we decide we're not going to stay for the rodeo, and when Huston hears this he starts to fall to pieces.

Thankfully, he is appeased when we tell him he can play Halo with Daddy when he gets home (that is a story for another day).

Now Arden is resting and seems okay, and Huston and Clarke have played Halo and Clarke is getting Huston ready for bed (which, for some reason, always involves lots of tickling and giggling and takes far longer than when I do it, but sounds like much more fun for Huston).

And that...is why we didn't make it to the rodeo.

There's always next year.

Dinah the Dinosaur

Allow me to introduce you to Dinah, the Dinosaur.

Dinah has been an important part of our lives for the last two months or so. It started when two random events serendipitously collided. The first was that I was packing up some boxes for Operation Christmas Child and including a rubber dinosaur I got on clearance at Target in each one. There was one dinosaur left over that just laid around in our room for awhile because I'm lazy like that. Around this same time, Huston watched an episode of Mickey Mouse Clubhouse with a triceratops named Dinah. After watching the episode and seeing the rubber dinosaur in our room (who also happened to be a triceratops) he quickly adopted her as his own.

(This is Dinah doing tricks for the camera - like standing on her back and on her tail).
A few things you should know about Dinah:

Dinah has also been called "Baby Dinosaur" and "Baby Squishy Dinosaur."

Dinah shows her various emotions - she wags her tail when she's happy and her horns droop down when she's sad.

Dinah's emotions often line up with Huston's emotions. For example, this morning Huston was grouchy and told me, "Mommy, Dinah's mad at you."

Dinah makes a unique sound, difficult to transcribe, but which goes something like, "Buut-aah," though not exactly. I could not figure out where this sound came from, until I saw the Mickey episode again and realized the dinosaur on the show makes that exact sound.

Dinah likes to be silly. She likes you to ask her to say "Buut-aah," and sometimes she'll say it, sometimes she'll be silent, sometimes she'll squeak, and sometimes she'll say ribbit. You never know what mood she's going to be in.

My boy and his dinosaur - may you have many adventures together.

Arden: 25 months

Arden's overdue for a little blog update, so here's one to start the new year. The picture below is from a sweet princess party I took Arden to this weekend. She wore a "Belle" costume that our neighbors gave us and the party favor was the little pink princess cape that the mom sewed for all the girls at the party. (Pretty sure this will be her Halloween costume since we already have it and it was free!)

I have to say that after all of Huston's drama about birthday parties over the years, it was so fun to take Arden by herself to a party. It was always so difficult to get Huston to just be normal at a party (forget about participating in anything) but Arden wanted to put on her princess dress, wear her cape, decorate her picture frame, listen to stories, play with the other girls, and basically do everything! She had so much fun.

Okay, so on to the actual Arden update. When I took her for her two year check up at the beginning of December, she was in the 90th percentile for height at 36 and 1/4 inches. You can get a rough estimate of full grown height by doubling their height at two years, which would put Arden at 6 feet! Obviously this is just an estimate, but it seems she'll be tall!

She still loves her Lambie and her "lil blankie" as she calls it. She can often be heard saying, "I want my lil blankie." She sleeps with both of those, as well as her "big blankie," but the little one really seems to be key to helping her fall asleep. She likes to rub it between her fingers and just kind of play with it until she drifts off.

Her favorite activity by far is reading or being read to. I don't know that I can accurately convey how much she loves to read (and always has). One of her favorite things at Christmas was reading the Lego instruction manual from one of Huston's toys. She will read anything, but her current favorite is an anthology of Curious George stories she got for Christmas. She'll ask, "Where my Keeeris George?" and then she'll plop down with it and read for a good 15 to 20 minutes.

Arden is such an early little riser lately, waking up between 6:15 and 6:45. She has also been extremely cling and attached to mommy. So attached that if I'm out of her sight for a second, she's crying, "Moooommmy, where are you? I tan't find youuu." Or crying if I suggest that Daddy give her a bath or change her diaper. She insists upon accompanying me to the bathroom or to check the mail or anywhere else where I might be out of sight. She's also within the past two weeks or so started crying when she goes down for a nap or bedtime. She used to go down so easily but now there's always weeping and wailing. One day she even cried so hard that she made herself throw up. This little throw up trick (that she's pulled a handful of times now) really works in her favor, as it makes me nervous to let her cry for too long.

She is so expressive and talkative. I wish I could accurately capture everything she says, because it's so adorable and distinct. Here's a small sampling:

The other day she was looking for Huston and said, "Huston....where are ya pal?"

She has such a southern twang. She says, "I need hey-elp" and "It's mines" pretty frequently.

One morning we were reading a Bible story (about Moses) and she asked, "What eeees that?"

I said, "That's the Red Sea."

After thinking a moment, she said, "Noooo, that not red sea! It's blue sea."

I love to ask her, "Are you my princess?" because she always responds, "No, I just my baby!"

I'll leave you with this snippet of Arden and Huston on the way home from church yesterday.

Arden said, "I want that fingy have da light." (That "thingy" was our Magna Doodle.)

Huston said, "Why did she say that?" and I said that I guessed it was because she didn't know it was called a Magna Doodle.

He proceeded to look at her, and tell her in a bossy voice, "Arden, it's called a Magna-doo-nel."

She said, "No! That fingy have da light!"

And Huston said, "NO! It's a Magna-nooool."

Then they both just started screaming at each other. It was pretty much the funniest fight ever.

Merry Merry!

We had a great Christmas at our house and hope you did, too! Here are a few pictures - mostly from our Christmas morning. We spent the 23rd at my parent's house and Christmas afternoon at Clarke's parent's house, and have one more Christmas celebration tonight.

Here's the best picture I could get of Arden and Huston before church on Christmas Eve. Huston was not feeling the picture taking. Unfortunately, both of the kids had colds over Christmas, but I think they're finally getting over them now.

We went to the 6:00 contemporary service, and it was awesome. I loved having the kids in worship with us. Huston was really interested in the candles that we got to light while singing Silent Night and loved helping us blow them out. Both of the kids were very well behaved during the service.

Here's our family in front of a Christmas tree at church:

On Christmas morning, Arden woke up at 6:00 (she's such an early riser lately!) so she and I watched Mickey Mouse for awhile as we waited for Huston to get up.

I think he didn't get up until after 7, and then we woke up Clarke and let the kids open their stockings. Huston was thrilled with his candy and slinky and other trinkets. It was so fun watching him pull things out, one by one.

Arden loved her chocolate "co-ins."

After they opened their stockings, Huston was ready for breakfast, so I made some misshapen homemade donuts, which ended up pretty much tasting like funnel cake. Not exactly the healthiest breakfast, but the kids liked it.

Christmas morning in front of the tree:

Arden had a great time opening her presents, which included a new highchair for her dolls, a milk and orange juice bottle where the liquid "disappears," some marbles and a jar, a Very Hungry Caterpillar game, and a sticker book. Santa brought them the Lion King, Kerplunk, and a Melissa and Doug magnetic pattern block toy.

I made the mistake of letting Huston open his new "Up!" book from us as his first gift. He was beside himself with giddiness and couldn't stop paging through it. Unfortunately, this also meant that he had no interest in opening anything else. He opened one or two more gifts at our urging, but would barely glance at them before he returned to his book. Finally he just refused to open anything else and when we left to go to Clarke's parents' house, he still had 3 unopened presents. At least he really liked his book! Just today he opened another present (he still has one more left), which was a Melissa and Doug solar system puzzle and he's been loving that, too, because he's really interested in outer space lately.

Just had to throw in this picture of Arden with her great-grandparents. Such a sweet picture! We love you, Granny and Papaw!

Pretzel Dipping

I had originally planned to let the kids help me bake and decorate sugar cookies this Christmas. But, because I am lazy, I downgraded to a chocolate pretzel dipping experience (with sprinkles, though!)

Huston took his job of dipping and shaking the sprinkles very seriously...

as you can tell by the disproportionate ratio of sprinkles to pretzels.

Arden played along, like "sure, Mom, I'll dip these pretzels for you..."

But they went straight in her mouth. Silly girl.

Lazy, but yummy fun.

Huston: 4 years, 4 months

Huston had his Christmas preschool performance on Friday. He was really nervous about it and didn't want to do it, but we talked and talked about it for two weeks or more. The morning of his program he woke up and said, "Today is my program. I'm going to sing." Just like that. And I let my heart hope that he would. I took this picture of him outside of school that morning.

When the kids filed onto the risers, he was looking at us nervously and chewing his shirt. But when "Feliz Navidad" started, he started strumming his pretend guitar like the rest of the kids and singing the first few words. Then he just fell apart. Crying, arm flinging, utter despair. The girl next to him may have gotten hit by one of his flailing arms. And the girl behind him noticed his breakdown and reached down to pat him reassuringly on the shoulder.

Oh well. Maybe next year.

I just have to record a few more things, before I forget them. Here's a prayer Huston said at dinner time on December 2nd:

"Thank you, God, for this day and for this food and for day and night, day and night, day and night and for Mommy and Daddy and Arden and please just bless Arden not to hit." I couldn't help but laugh a little when his prayer was over, and he explained, "I was just praying for God to take away that sin from Arden."

His favorite game to play with Daddy when he comes home from work, is "Hut," otherwise known as football. Huston says "Hut!" and Clarke tries to tackle him, while Huston tries to run past him to the hallway. Arden tries to "block" by sitting on Daddy or otherwise interfering. Mommy is not allowed in the room when this game is played. I get told, "No, Mommy! Go away! I don't want you in here!" But I don't even mind, because I love his special games with his Daddy.

I also love how he says, "releven" for "eleven" and "relarm" for "alarm." And how he says, "Warmart" and "fwavwite."

Huston loves talking about outer space, which he calls, "Out-Ar Space." One day he told me, "I'm just so glad God gave us gravity so we won't go flying into out-ar space."

He still loves the movie Up and spends most of his day flying his paper "Up" house around and reenacting scenes from the movie, or carrying around one of his two books about the movie. His sweet teacher Ms. Kate gave him an Up sticker book a few weeks ago, and he walked around with a smile on his face all day. The pictures below are from October, and we're on our fourth or fifth paper Up house now (because Huston freaks out if they get bent or wet or wrinkled - he's a bit of a perfectionist like his mother), but that's pretty much how he looks most of the day, carrying around his little paper house.

We took the kids to Austin this weekend to see some friends and to see the Christmas lights on 37th street (which were not as good as I remembered, but the kids liked them). I desperately wanted to go shopping at The Domain in the afternoon, but it quickly became apparent that was a terrible idea. It was super crowded and the kids were over tired and just weren't going to cooperate. So we took them to a park to play instead, and they had a blast. Being a parent really makes you constantly die to yourself, but it's not always easy. Even though I knew the kids needed a chance to play, I was so selfish and just kept clinging to the hope of shopping. Anyway, we were rewarded with a super fun hour of playing and I'm so glad we went to the park instead of being miserable while trying to shop.

Huston was being such a boy at the park - going down the slide head first, climbing on this difficult set of stairs and doing it over and over until he could do it by himself. It's so fun to watch him get more daring after being overly cautious and afraid for so long.

We let the kids have dinner at Chick Fil A, and Huston and Arden are always beyond adorable in the play area together. It's like that playground really bonds them together and makes them a team. Arden can't get up all the steps to the slide by herself, so Huston goes behind her, pushing her bottom up so she can make it up each step. It is SO. CUTE. I could watch it all day. This particular playground went up really high and we couldn't see the kids at the top of it. They made it all the way up, and Arden started freaking out, crying and screaming, and she wouldn't slide down the slide. I asked Huston if he could help her, and he immediately started talking in this soothing tone to her,

"It's okay baby girl. I'm right here. And I'm never going to leave you. It's okay. I'm just never going to leave you. Come on baby girl." And she slid down the slide with him. Clarke and I just sat there looking at each other while our hearts swelled with joy and pride.

I love that boy.

Christmas so far...

Arden has soooo many cute Christmas outfits this year, thanks mostly to my mom's clearance finds at Dillard's last year. This lime polka dot confection, rimmed with fur, is one of my very favorites.

I wrapped 24 Christmas books before December started, and the kids have been opening one a night. Clarke's reading them "Fancy Nancy's Splendiferous Christmas" in this picture. After they read it, Arden went around saying, "Ooh Laa Laa" for days. I could just eat the kids up in their matching Gingerbread jammies.

We opened our new Little People nativity on December 1st and read the Christmas story. Arden calls Baby Jesus, "MY Baby Jesus." Huston's not that interested in it.

Huston did, however, LOVE helping me decorate the tree this year. He really helped me hang up a lot of the ornaments and was so excited about the whole process.

My friend Ashlee and I organized an advent devotional ornament exchange this year, which I might post about later if I have time. We got 24 girls together and everyone was assigned a day of the devotional - I had creation. Then we each made 24 copies of our ornament and had a little party where we distributed the ornaments so now we have one to go with each day of the devotional.

We have really enjoyed doing our advent devotional every night and hanging the ornament on the tree. The topics are simple, but good, and I hope it's preparing our kid's hearts for Christmas this year.

This Saturday Truitt and Melinda took the kids downtown to see the Christmas tree and lights. They had such a good time and came back talking about everything.

This sweet little outfit is from Melinda. So precious!

And Huston made his Rudolph shirt in school (and then threw a huge fit about wearing it and swore he was never going to wear it again).

I made the kids take another picture before church on Sunday because I thought their outfits were so cute. Huston was not amused.